Do you want to understand more about yourself?  Ask yourself these:

Am I open to feedback and willing to embrace new ideas?
Am I being objective and facing reality squarely?
Am I living an illusionary life?
Am I really empowering others?
Am I fearful or fearless?
Am I egotistical or positively confident?
Am I carrying a lot of baggage of the past?
 
Asking pertinent questions will bring some insights into your life.  Perhaps you might break through some of the things that hold you back!